Birthdays for a kid with divorced parents can be awesome! Two sets of parents =  double the presents, double the parties, and double the cake! I mean, if the kid plays their cards right, they can get everything on their wish list.  Why wouldn’t they love it? But for some reason our sweet daughter had different plans this year.  Several months ago our girl came home and said, “My daddy is having a birthday party for me at his house, and I want all of my family to come.  Even you Mommy.” Ummm…. excuse me?  Did I hear you correctly? You want me, your bonus dad , your bonus sister,…